Wednesday, May 28, 2014

A house of our own.

Ok, I guess I'm being a little lazy with words in the title because it's an apartment not a house and we don't own it, we're renting.  BUT I'm so thankful that we now have a place to call ours here in Aalborg.

Before moving here, I was hoping that we would find an apartment to move into by the beginning of April.  Hah!  That was before I talked to anyone else who has had the non-enviable task of finding an apartment in Aalborg.  It ended up taking about 2 months to find a place, and apparently that amount of searching time is the norm.

Meanwhile, we spent those 2 months living in a temporary place that was completely adequate and functional, and we were very thankful to have a furnished place to live in as soon as we moved here.  But, probably because we knew it was temporary, it never really felt like our space.

Our Building
However, after spending my days refreshing the apartment search website every 5 minutes and contacting non-responsive landlord after non-responsive landlord, I am SO happy to report that we found a place we actually want to live in, successfully translated a Danish lease (ok, some very helpful friends translated the lease for us, I'm not that good at Danish yet), paid a security deposit that we've been told not to expect back, and have established the home of the Gerhardts in Denmark complete with fully functioning dishwasher and a shower that doesn't spray water over the entire bathroom every time you use it.  Yay!
Kitchen

As we walked through the house for the first time on moving day, David remarked, "Wow, you're really happy about moving here."  And I was!  And still am!  But why was it that renting an apartment was such a big deal anyway?  I mean home is where ever I'm with you, right David?  And many times home isn't necessarily the building where you live, often people or a place or a time can be home.  And I certainly didn't expect Denmark to feel like home anytime soon.  But the thing was, even after being here for about two months, it didn't really feel like I was even living in Denmark.  It felt more like I was just staying here for a while.  

Living Room
You see, most things had gradually fallen into place.  We had Danish mobile phone numbers and local bus passes.  We'd made some friends.  We'd even found a church (in English!) to go to.  But without a place of our own, it still felt like I would be hopping on a plane back to Colorado at some point.  Having a place of our own filled with our stuff (which conveniently arrived in a big shipping crate on the same day we moved) went a long way in helping me feel like I actually lived here and I wasn't just on some really long vacation.  (Probably wouldn't seem like a vacation if I had a job...haha.)

Bedroom
The permanence of our move to Denmark is more real now...in a good way...in a way that makes me want to really become friends with the people that I've met here and discover my favorite places in Aalborg and explore this country that I now live in.  I don't want it to feel like I'm going back to the US any day now.  I want to figure out what it means to have a life here.  That's why I moved to Denmark.  I want to learn what it's like to live somewhere different than what I'm used to.

So I'm thankful for our apartment.  I'm thankful that we now have the space to invite people over for dinner, like our friend Karl who, after reading in this very blog that I had been unable to find canned black beans in Aalborg, found canned black beans for me!  (So it was practically required that we invite him over to show him the deliciousness of black bean burritos.)  I'm thankful that I have an oven so that I can bake a dessert to bring over a friend's house.  I'm thankful that, once again, we have instruments to play together.  And I'm thankful for a space that makes it a little easier to do the kinds of things that help me feel like I actually have a life here.



Sunday, May 11, 2014

Work

A selective timeline of David's life:
  • 8665 days ago: begin schooling
  • 124 days ago: finish schooling
  • 59 days ago: begin first industry job in Denmark
You could say that I've been preparing for a job for 83.9% of my life. But then you'd be ignoring weekends, evenings, holidays, etc. Let's assume that schooling occurs for 40 hrs/week over 9 months/year; that brings it down to 15% of my life.

I've invested this 15% in things that interest me, and it has been very rewarding. My education has taken me from the coast to the mountains to the Jutland, and has provided experiences I'll never forget. This one time, some friends and I got together and built a satellite!

All that to say, it feels like I don't know a thing. I don't know if it's is a moving-to-another-country thing or a first-real-job thing, but there is so much to learn.

I look around my office, and I see engineers that have been engineering while I have been schooling. They've been building while I've been theorizing. I find myself envying their experience.

It's frustrating - after being in school for so long, I almost thought I knew what I was doing. Yet time and time again I am surprised by the gaps in my knowledge. Oh, and that one time, with the satellite? I'm continually realizing that our team was even more capable than I thought. It's happened a few times at work already: Wait, who did this on CSSWE? Oh, somebody (Ian/Nate/Lauren/Quintin/Chris/etc.) must have done that without telling me. Chalk another one on the "to-learn" column.

So I'm learning. Don't get me wrong - I'm excited to be at a job where I will grow as an engineer. I've just been surprised at how much there is to learn.

At the end of my first week, I was mulling over thoughts like these when my friend Karl tapped me on the shoulder and said, "It's beer friday now". Then I turned around and saw this:


The image shows my coworkers celebrating the end of a work week by grabbing a beer and eating peanuts & chips while talking about anything but work. Most Danish companies do this every week! Once beer friday begins, people will usually stick around long enough to enjoy a beer and some snacks before they head home for the weekend. Americans (like me) could learn a lot about work/life balance from traditions like this.

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Enjoying Danish holidays (in Berlin).

What's this?  Another blog post less than a week after the last one?

Well, I'm not sure I can keep up this posting frequency (my days aren't all that exciting, and I can't seem to convince David to write a post of his own yet), but I did say that I would write about the second half of our Easter holiday in Berlin.  And I didn't want to get too far behind because there will be other things to write about soon (like maybe a new apartment...maybe...I hope).

Anyway...

Berlin was really cool!  Now that I've actually been there, I'm surprised that I hadn't visited the city during any earlier trips to Europe.  I was definitely missing out.  Remnants of the Berlin wall overlook an exhibit on the Gestapo that's next door to a building that formerly housed the Prussian parliament, and it's all next to a conveniently located currywurst stand.  There is so much in this city.  Just during my lifetime, some world-changing things have happened here.  I don't really consider myself a big history nerd/buff/enthusiast/whatever, but walking through these sites of major historical significance
was fascinating.

However, even with all it's historical places, it struck me that Berlin didn't look very "old".  The city was basically destroyed during World War 2 so extensive re-building was required, but the Cold War hampered that to some degree with the restoration of many areas being completed only in the past 20 years.  And the building continues with construction cranes appearing in every photo I took overlooking Berlin.

As we explored, it was interesting to see how the city has chosen to mark/remember the different places and events, especially the ones where really horrible things were happening.  For instance, the site of Hitler's bunker where he committed suicide right before the end of the war is now a parking lot with a sign that explains the significance of what happened there 70 years ago.  This seems appropriate.  It doesn't deserve a museum, but it is important to remember.  The remnants of the Berlin wall that remain around the city are interesting too.  I'm sure some people wanted to destroy all traces of the wall in the city, but enough people recognized that it would be important to remember this part of their history.  So an area that was formerly the "death strip" between the two sections of the wall is now a park with a memorial to the people that died trying to cross that death strip to escape to West Berlin, and a huge section of the remaining wall is now the East Side Gallery where artists from all over the world were invited to paint murals on the wall.

Berlin Wall Memorial








East Side Gallery



























One of the most thought-provoking and well put together exhibits was on the site of the former Gestapo headquarters.  The building itself has been demolished, but on top of the rubble, there is an exhibit describing the political, economic, and cultural atmosphere in which Hitler and the Nazis came to power, the atrocities that were committed against various people groups by that regime, and the German society in which all this took place.  David and I planned a quick visit to this site before having lunch one day but ended up staying for 3 hours.  (Because we stayed so long, I ended up buying a delicious butter-filled pretzel from the on-site cafe.  Not a bad decision.)

I was also very impressed with the way that the different museums and memorials sought to go beyond just the numbers and statistics and tell the stories of actual people.  The Holocaust Memorial (or its official title "Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe") is a 5 acre site honoring the 6 million Jews murdered during the Holocaust.  Underneath the memorial, the information center has collected an impressive number of cards, letters, photos, and other items from which they've been able to tell the stories of victims and their families.  We can read about the sheer numbers of people killed during the Holocaust (numbers so big that they're hard to comprehend), but hearing some of their stories gives a much better perspective.


In addition to all the historical places, we spent a lot of
time just walking around some of Berlin's different neighborhoods: Mitte, Prenslauer Berg, Schoneburg, Tiergarten, Potsdamer Platz, etc.  Each neighborhood seemed to have a unique vibe, and in between the history lessons, we relaxed in the neighborhood cafes, gelato shops, and parks.  (You can't beat 1 euro for a scoop of gelato in waffle cone!)


We also found a fun place to go dancing (but unfortunately missed swing dance night).  Clärchens Ballhaus is a 100 year old dance hall, and on the Saturday night that we were there, it featured a live German cover band and was packed with people from 20 to 80 years old (no kidding).  It was here that I realized just how pervasive American pop culture can be.  Almost every song the band played was in English, and the audience was singing right along with them.

On Easter Sunday, we even found a church to go to.  The Berliner Dom is a huge cathedral in central Berlin, and we celebrated the resurrection (in German!) with the amazing choir and organ.  After the Easter service, we climbed the 270 steps to the top of the dome (ya know because we hadn't done enough walking already).




















One of my favorite parts about Berlin was the food.  There were so many different types of food, and compared to Denmark, it was all SO cheap!  (It's really impractical to eat out in Aalborg.)  We had German food, Chinese food, Korean food, burritos, gelato, fries, doner kebabs, and of course, the ubiquitous currywurst.  Basically, anytime we passed a place that looked good, we stopped to get a snack.  (Such a great way to spend a vacation.)

After 4 days in this city, Berlin is a place I would definitely go back to.  There are still more neighborhoods to explore, a couple palaces to visit, a whole island full of museums that we didn't see, and of course, more food to eat.  Throughout this post, I've linked to the places that I'd recommend if you're planning a visit to Berlin anytime soon.  And if you are, let us know!  We'll totally meet you there!

First taste of currywurst
Hanging out with the Ampelmännchen